Gain your confidence today.

I noticed that most girls who are insecure about themselves, set such low standards FOR themselves in everything: From clothes, to heels, to attitude, to men.

Every woman has the right to take power over whatever has been bringing her down.

Clothes – Wear something that would make you feel special. Stop looking like that same old-self. T-SHIRT AND JEANS . TANK TOP AND SHORTS. BAGGY DRESSES. Go for something more gorgeous this time. There are so many stunning dresses: From petite to plus size.

Heels – Try something different! If you’ve never worn high heels before, now is the time. Heels automatically increase your confidence. It enhances what you wear and of course, makes you taller.

Attitude – I studied this and realized that too many women have low self-esteem. Instead, they should have more respect for themselves. 

Have some faith in yourself and others will have faith in you.

Advertisements
This entry was posted in Dating & Relationships, Lifestyle and tagged , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

4 Responses to Gain your confidence today.

  1. lola says:

    Dear Blogperson,

    Yeah, self esteem is an issue, however it can be very subjective.
    A girl can look very pretty but still be uncomfortable in her own skin.

    I think self esteem is a state of mind, I would have to disagree with the dresses, heels and make up to boost someone’s confidence. Well, maybe just to a certain extend..

    I think a girl can look gorgeous with whatever she wears. She just needs the right attitude, a good heart and a smile.

    take care bloglady.

    love,
    hani

    • sheiryn says:

      You raise an interesting point, Hani. Thank you so much for adding your thoughts! 🙂

      Yes, if you have absolutely no confidence, then looking and smelling great won’t fix that.

      My point was that looking better can help you feel better. Our outward appearance affects how we feel inside.

      And no, a girl cannot “look gorgeous with whatever she wears.” What if she wore a trash bag that smelled like 30 year old garbage and a paper bag over her head? Would you think she looked “gorgeous”? So yes, how you dress and smell can affect how attractive you are to others, especially men.

      But more importantly, it can make you FEEL sexier, more confident, and happier!

      Best,
      Sheiryn

  2. Brenda says:

    “My point was that looking better can help you feel better. Our outward appearance affects how we feel inside.” That is very true, Sheiryn.

    Whenever I don’t put on any make up and wear something comfortable just to go get some groceries or do some quick shopping, I always pray that I don’t bump into anyone I know. Lol. I guess when you know you look good, the confidence is there. Like you have nothing to worry about.

  3. Sally says:

    Lola,

    What you say is a good thing but it certainly does not link up to the blogger’s topic.

    And by saying this “I think a girl can look gorgeous with whatever she wears. She just needs the right attitude, a good heart and a smile”, in this century, everyone judges each other from the first impression. It doesn’t matter anymore if you have a good heart etc.

    Sheiryn Aisiqa, what a unique name. I like how you answered her, very calm and friendly. Except the part with the trash bag, lol. It was a little too much but at times, it takes exaggerating scenarios to make people understand. And I agree whole-heartedly with the message you’re trying to send out there. It is an honest thing. When you know you look good, you feel confident and strong automatically.

    Love,
    Sally

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s